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Do You Think Before You Speak?

Think before you speak This piece really could be the 2nd part to my previous post on Active Listening , which started with the quote:

” Listen a hundred times, ponder a thousand times, speak once!”

So I guess this is about how we reply after we have listened to something that has just been said to us.

A lot of the time, when we speak we are just going through a familiar motion without being fully conscious of all of our words. Read the rest of this entry

” Listen a Hundred Times, Ponder a Thousand Times. Speak Once!

~Source Unknown~

ListeningI think it’s fair to say, a lot of us would consider ourselves to be great listeners. However I would hazard a guess that some of us get this confused with hearing, which is simply receiving communication rather than truly listening.

Listening is “really” paying thoughtful attention to what is being said and understanding the complete message being delivered. Read the rest of this entry

At first glance you would probably say, not really!…although I believe that by the end of this post you’ll come to understand that we do in fact have a lot in common.

I’m going to give you a hint to our commonality by starting with a quote by Eban himself…“Possibly the most important and profound action you can take to create change, transformation and success in your life is to build and participate in a “MasterMind.” Read the rest of this entry

How To Be More Successful

FAN9001683_THave you ever wondered that if you could just do one thing different, could it really change your life forever? Have you ever thought if you could just have this thing or that thing, that life would be different for you?

Is there really one thing that can have so much of an impact on who you are and your ability to have success, that your life will never be the same again?

I know from experience that there is “one thing” that can have a massive affect on your ability to have what you want in this life. I know that this one thing has changed billions of people’s lives and is the secret to success for everyone that uses this one little principle. You might be asking what this could be.

Well, the one little thing, or should I say this one little word, will give you the power to attract whatever you want. Anything that you can possibly dream of is yours for the asking if you do this one little thing.

I’m sure that you’re all on the edge of your seat waiting to find out what it might be, and when you hear what it is you might say to yourself, “Yeah, I knew that”, and then just brush it off. Now, if you find yourself saying this, then it is very likely that you “Know It, but don’t Do It”.

The one little word or principle that I am referring to has been used by the greatest people that have ever lived. So I’ll stop with the suspense and just tell you. The one word that that has the ability to change your life forever is Gratitude. Now, why is gratitude so important?
Well, let’s run down a list of items that will give you an idea as to what gratitude does.

FAN9001728_TIt is impossible to be negative when you are grateful.

It is impossible to criticize or complain about people or your circumstances with gratitude in your heart.

You can’t feel sad when you are thankful.

It reminds you of all of the great things and people in your life.

It makes you aware of the things that are most important in this life.

It opens up your ability to attract more of what you want, because you appreciate what you already have.

I want to ask you a question. If you gave a person a gift and they didn’t say “Thank You”, how would that make you feel? Would you keep giving gifts to that person? For most people the answer would be no.

I don’t know your spiritual belief, and I’m not sure if you’re aware that about 95% of the population believes that there is a God or some sort of Supreme being out there.

For me I am proud to call myself a Believer, a believer in a power far greater than myself and I know that by giving thanks for the great things that I have in my life, I get more great things.

I know that it’s because I have gratitude for all of it, the good and the bad. It really is a science ;-)

To your MEGA Success,

Martin Varlow

Before reading this book, the idea of using ~The Law Of Attraction~ as a way of thinking was foreign to me. I guess it had a lot to do with where I was in my personal life and my belief system at the time, I had been through some setbacks and the thought of letting go of my old ways was a little uncomfortable for me.

After reading ~The Science of Getting Rich~ I started to use the Laws of Attraction and gradually started to change my way of  thinking, I was letting go of my old ways and ideas which I came to realize were no longer serving any constructive meaning or value in my life any more.

This free e-book is for those who are ready to let go of what they think they know. It is for those who are willing to do what is necessary to get to where they want to go and start to think in ~ A Certain Way.

I attribute my new life path to the constant referral to this book…

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…I read it the first time in one sitting!…now it may only be a chapter or a page before bed.  It generally takes a while to totally change your OLD ways…I believe we are all a work in progress. ;-)

The Key!!!… A willingness to accept that you deserve good things in your life.

After you read it…come back and let me know what you think.

To your MEGA Success!

Martin Varlow

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